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A hobby tool or trouble

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"    I saw today a video of a girl in Britain having been given a valuable jewel, it seemed because she appeared of a so good quality that she might grow up to become a queen, so it was maybe good to give some such girl a possibility to train herself in big thing, maybe get influencies from a real quees and so have some idea of what to try to learn among other things. 

When I was a child and had a name connected with the possibility of growing up to be an emperor, my mom once or twice run into some such possibility for me, but I did not have at all enough social skills etc for such, so it was impossible because others would have robbed it from me and there woukd have been some cunning plans causing occultidt bad luck for me. But later I heard that some of my class mates had been offered such, but it still was too difficult for me. https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/10/about-earning-money.html

I think that one learns from one's hobbies, so it is good to have good hobby tools and some dreams, but things interesting very many get easily robbed away, so there just is lors of lying and no possibilities for such life of the dedicated beginner with good quality in school like things etc and in always following good will in the world and fair play. Such has been in my lufe, so I do not know what I have lost, but it seems something much too bug for me to handle in social lufe etc. So I just write teaching material for the wide world in skills important in life and in the world. 

If the world is of spirit, maybe one could see from how one's artifacts etc change to be like what one is like, which values, quality, wusdom of life and character one has, but in practice that is difficult to achieve even momentarily since there are so many people interested in cheating by stealing, lying, manipulating etc in the world. Likewise one could estimate by vlothes, their style and symbolic colours, but those too depend on the environment, and at least my life has beem hindered much in such skiils. Likewise handiworks style, quality, interests etc depend on the town lived in, and handiworks tend to get dtyle influenvies from others, especially the pictures but also peace for hsndiwork may be prevented by influemcies from others. And similarly of work achievements, reputation etc, so there only remains to judge people deed by deed and only take care not to fall to poor quality instead of fair play, not to judge on reputation only, but instead remember the need for safety precautions in such cases. 

I once read from a news article, not so long ago, of a politician at the time of elections having eaten very luttle or not at all for two days but felt like having eaten, since she was so motivated and got so much support from voters. So it seems that quite often politicians in high positions and some of the active elderly mostly need very little food, since they take tasks that they are suited to and motivated to and to which often no-one else has the skills, inclination, experience, etc and which are needed in the society and the world. And so they go like let's see, I coukd do this bunch and then thst, etc, and so they manage to do tjings in good quality ways, even if others cannot. Ghe opposite are people who insist on living in a place they don't like and working in a job that they do not feel motivated toward, so they go skriik skrääk and often need big meals with butter or oil, in order to feel at all satisfied and good willing. So I guess that a hobby that one oneself öikes and admires is much better for oneself than a hobby which needs expensive equipments. 

https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/01/christmas-gnome-internet-institute.html 

https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/12/a-christmas-song-i-am-not-seeking-for.html 

When I was a child, me and my brother had the habit of opening doors by slamming the handle, or if we were carrying something, by pressing the door handle with our toes. At some point our father started complaining about it, saying that it is no way to open the door. So we watched this news article's video advice about learning the right way to open a door. I still don't know what to think about it. My dream had been to become a dancer, but my mom said she saw what hobby woukd suit us. I feel the video being like this thing about getting money or a job or position or a personal style: there still is something I did not get right socially snd in the society, even though I got some part to work out well. 

https://yle.fi/aihe/artikkeli/2007/03/28/hepskukkuu-kuinka-avaan-oven-oikein

So it turned out that I am jyst a writer. When I was a young child my parents said that I will learn the needed social skills etc, but I didn't. And as I have learned that to publicity thete is some kind of spiritual or mental feedback or connection with the audience or readers, that would demand much more social power to influence others tgan what I have, even most ordinary jobs seem out of reach for me in that respect, so now that I do not seem to have anythibg more to write about, I have lstely felt socially annihilated, as if I were on an advertisement wall but people wanted mostly some other types of persons to places so much in sight.

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About safety and emperor's job

 When there is power to command big thing, there usually come lots of people and groups who want the power to themselves. So it does not make sense that such a power would be easy to get and use to harmful purposes. So at least from my name association's point of view there cannot be emperor's power to command big things just because of being an emperor. Instead the country or group should arrange life in the coubtry so that very good suggestions are taken into use, first slightly to see if they work out well enough and are liked, and then in a larger scale if those were good results. So being an emperor ought not cause so much danger to the emperor, if it does not exclude others from having power. 

I have thought since I was a baby that I have some wisdom which would be useful to have in large scale questilns. So for the last 25 years I have been writing ( see www.amazon.com/author/khtervola ) teaching material mostly for a world wide audience, which is just in case it might be useful and liked. I also always try to behave so that lufe would run well in my environment and in the wider world if my effect affects so much, but I do nit always succeed in living like I aim to live. But anyway such is just me trying to build and maintain a good objective picture of the world and follow wisdom of life & the rule "Live and let others live!", so it is my idea of a good way for me to live and not some way to use my personal power to influence things to affect others or things in the environment as if sheltering by my body or using things meant for my own life to instead affect others or the society. So it ought not cause opposition or weakening of my defences or of my power to live. But some evil persons want to interfere with the lives of others using their personal social power to influence things, and such weakens the evil person's personal defences, for example positiln and may cause lots of opposition and room for revenge like fair attacks. Also if I write some teaching material on a general level, there ought be no conflicts and no forcing resulting from it. But if some, maybe unexperienced, people discus such subjects with socially dominant persons, there often comes lots of forcing in the disguise of true descriptiln of how things ought to be. 

About vows

 "   a42.   At least with dating pair the problem of havibg sworn faithfulness is what happens if there are other dates. Does one say in English that one swears loyalty to the kkng or queen. Then that sounds like a gang which does not quarantee that the world would go on good tracks as a redult. If I think of what would work toward better, my guess is to swear good will and following the rule "Live and let others live!", see F60. for it. 

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F60. Oh, how is gnome like life possible socially, how is it possible to get along and to have room for one's own life, for one's own likings? I guess that the answer is the traditional Finnish rule "Live and let others live!". It is essential, so I copy it here:

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Saturday, October 13, 2012

World's best problem solving method (Important to learn all over the world)

 The ruleis something like: One is allowed to be selfish in ways positive for happy life but not to disturb the lives of others - except fairly to prevent them from disturbing others unfairly.

I do not know how all-European this traditional Finnish speaking Finnish (saying/)behaviour rule referred by the non-literal words "Live and let others Live!" but it is surely worth copying! It gives a maximal amount of freedom of everyone, completely according to their own likings, at the same time as it gives perfect moral for purely selfish individuals concerned mainly about their own life but who have a holistic rational view of the world and of the
society's workings.
The rule "Live and let other Live!" means that you can yourself live as freely as you allow others to live in the society - that means the others who follow the rule "Live and let others Live!". If you to some extend disturb people who follow the saying, you own room to affect things and to live in is shrunk on that respect, preventing the harm and making you think that you might want more room and so be motivated to living in harmony. That means that evil is not allowed to affect lives (of anybody else than the evil one oneself) but nice moral things are allowed to affect fully and supported in order to get better life for all! But one does not need to accept some influence because someone else says it is nice, instead there is the need to be moral and the freedom tofollow one's own likings.
It is a good rule. Maybe You have it already! Please learn to use it for happy life and a prosperous society, if it is not so widely known...

About the rule in all social relationships, please read http://yksinaisille.blogspot.fi/2012/03/build-perfect-relationship.html

Observe that this rule is roughly "Room for happy life!" and is akin to justice and caring the world to such that it is good to live in happily. It is not saying that one should not kill anybody. It means that if fair play and the happiness in the society or in the wide world so demands, you are supposed to prevent evil ones (and utterly stupid ones) from harming others unfairly, also if it means war, killing or the like, but of course one must see the situation as a whole, the good and bad sides of each tactic and choose with wisdom.

There is this same rule without any exception in all relationships, including mother-child-relationships, dating (Try for example in competitors in love, their kids and other responsibilities), friendship, hate, not caring attitude etc. Largely other rules are not needed, except lots of common sense, healthy spirit and a good understanding and at least some good will toward all.

An important application of this rule are the relationships between countries and between groups which may compete fiercely. It is also a good rule to build the society upon.

It often happens with this rule that the problems disappear as if they had vanished to the thin air.
Typically some woman (a wise one) or some nice man says "Go and enjoy yourself. Do not be bothered by them. You do not need to disturb them if you go to some other place or to some other people." and so the person in conflict does so and finds so room for him/her to live his/her own life without conflict with the others.

The goal is something like "We live our lives and let them live theirs." But the other side of the rule is how to get it to apply, how to force it upon people who do not follow it. And that is if they break against justice disturbing the lives of others unfairly, their own room to live in is shrunk similarly and they are prevented from harming others unfairly. But where they live ok, they can fairly keep their space to live in. Typically in this the rest of the society caring about that people would follow the rule, is important. Also some wisdom of life makes this work better than too little understanding about quality of life, social relationships and the workings of the society.

If this rule isn't familiar to you and you don't know how to take it into use or even if you want to use it or not, please try it out in your mind: figure out what it is like in each situation and how following it would affect things. It is a very useful rule, somaybe you like it too, it is quite easy when you have first learned it in each type of situation.

If you in some occasion don't feel like yur feelings coming along in letting others have so much room and preferably happiness too, you have propably not applied the rule enough to yourself: so be more selfcentered, think about what your own life need in a situation like this and see if you can arrange freedom and happiness for both yourself and for others, for yourself you need to take care of it and for others just leave room for them and they themselves with their friends arrange for themselves without feeling it being a burden of some kind.

This rule works also if there are lots of murders http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2016/10/live-and-let-others-live-also-if-there.html

In care professions, like for example medicine, it is important to follow good enough understanding, good enough moral and be honest about what is a lie, a habit or an unsure supposion. But with wider consequencies taken fally into account this rule applies there too: the patients and others cared for should be allowed to decide fully about their need for care and about the decisions in their care: that is their life, their own influence to the world and those in care professions should not mess with it, giving excuses for crimes. It is especially important to let those live freely who are moral and so carry the burden of keeping the world in a good state, for example some parts of the society.

This rule works well for example in the negotiations between different groups. You do not need always say aloud that things are according to this rule. It is enough if your suggestions are such that when other groups check them, they find that those are ok for them, so they can easily agree to support them, and likewise for your own groups too. But on the long run it is good for people to learn the rule, so that their own suggestions are all right for others too.

Following this rule in decisions, courses taken, judgements etc makes police and justice system and government also easy to agree about, but you do not need to refer to this rule, but more likely explain things in terms of law, needs, objective thoughts, common sense, experience, fair play, carrying responsibility, freedom, etc and then when the other person checks whether it is ok for him/her, it is according to this rule and so easy to agree about, and kind of makes it easier to think of these kinds of things if one has good enough understanding, wisdom wisdom of life, healthy spirit, good will and responsibility about the coming generations etc.

Horse running in an arch, a model of free life according to feelings, a horse knit picture

(serves also as a pain-killer:  http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2018/12/painkiller-just-look-at-this-picture-of.html )

Animals and somehumans too learn this rule easily by comparing people (and animals) to the trees in a park: each one has one's branches sovereign, lives freely according to one's emotions so, but does not mess with the branches of others, isn't allowed to do so. But one can offer available things that people like, like for example a song in the radio, in a radio station which specializes to that type of music so that people can choose according to their likings whether they listent o it or not.

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Women's views

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a4.   19th of April 2023   Just a story   When I in the first half of March had gotten the fifth book of this text ready and it had been for sale, there once came a dream like picture to my mind of an Arab man in the Arabian peninsula saying that he had liked tge idea of women's position in it and since he had some money he had bought the book - or offered the text https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/01/womens-position-like-that-of-others.html in it? - to hundreds of women and so had gotten was it 500 or 700 wives who liked such a position as in the text, and been told that any more viwes wouldn't be a harem but instead a governmental area or a new nation, since they had their own views of how to live kn a society. Also women kn other countries have liked tge text's view on emperor's power being possible by estimating fairly per deed. Those whose culture lacks conversational skills have liked the first few advices of ghe text and the rest back them up by sipporting the possibility choose what kind of work one does and by teaching useful skills. See www.amazon.fr search "tervola".

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Clothes etc

 Someone might wonder that if i have in my name somewhat the theme "emperor", should i have some royal style in clothes or things in my home, but in my eyes it does not appear so. What an emperor has is for the nation and/or for the large world, for large groups, what they need and what is good for them. In addition there may be clothes etc telling what the emperor as a worker and as an individual is like, something which is kind of funny if someone else wears it, and not like a jewel or a piece of art which are for the large groups. 

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